"Take you clothes off." she ordered.
I obeyed. Once undressed she took and laid me across her lap. I heard the bag rustle the felt her finger and something cool and slick on my asshole. I instantly tightened up shocked by the sensation. Nobody had ever touched my down there but as she rubbed her lubed fingers around my virgin ass I realized that I liked it. Slowly she worked her fingers inside of me and I was moaning like crazy. This must have turned her on tremendously because I'm usually pretty quiet during sex. She began slapping my ass with her other hand screaming "Do you like that Baby! You want more I'll give you more!" The bag rustled again and i heard the buzz of a vibrator. She pulled out her fingers and spread my ass cheeks apart and I felt the vibrator buzz at my asshole just before she slipped it in. I gasped at the size of it.....didn't she know I'd never had anything back there before? It didn't take long for me to realize it didn't really hurt though. As she worked it in and out, deeper and deeper I became frenzied screaming for her to fuck me hard with it. She was pumping it in and out and slapping my ass bright red screaming "Take it all, Baby. Take all of it!" I came all over her lap, I think she came too. We've found many more anal sex toys and had many more sessions, but none like my first time through the back door.
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But luckily for me, she went through a notable femdom phase, all of which is available in the free gallery area. I noticed that these had all been added between 2006 and 2007, during which time, I figured, she either must have been commissioned to do a lot of femdom work, or just been feeling very dominant towards her boyfriend (she’s normally of a more submissive persuasion, she says.) Whatever, the result is a whole lot of the following…
Anyway I figured I’d email her and ask her what made such a sweet girl turn so mean…as in, how come she started churning out stuff like this and then stopped again about a year later. Here’s what she said:
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I get tons of messages asking how to meet someone for power exchange. Mostly from men looking to serve women.
If you are wanting to know something as precise as “How can I meet a woman who will make me lick her toilet clean while making me wear purple panties?” I just don’t know what to say.
If you want to know how to meet a dominant woman - and not a dominate woman - then I’ll point you at one of this site’s sister websites: Femdom Dating. It isn’t a hookup site but a collection of tips and suggestions.
Best of luck.
Many dominant female as looking for submissive males who have more than their submissiveness going for them. They want a guy whose company is pleasurable in ordinary circumstances. Example: someone they can share a meal with. Your first communication shouldn’t be loaded down with all your kinks and fetishes; you shouldn’t wallow in your submissiveness.
There’s no need really for you to write about D/s or S&M (or whatever fancy labels you like to use). She already has a good idea of what you are seeking. Say instead you hope an exchange of emails or instant messages will lead to meeting for coffee or a meal. That is: write in terms of seeking a date. The other things will come if she likes you; they won’t if she doesn’t.
I’m not going to write much today because I’m a bit under the weather. I need a Dr who makes house calls should there be one out there all ready, willing, able, and submissive ;)
There are a couple of things I did want to mention. The activity in the comments section here has really been busy lately and much of what is said there is quite interesting. I’ve added a feature to my blog that allows you to sign up for email notifications of post comments in case you want to easily follow them. This feature will work even if you haven’t left a comment. Click on the post title and then scroll to the bottom of the page to find the signup box.
Additionally, I’ve decided that I will publish anonymous comments. The blog software doesn’t allow for that so in the spot where you sign your name - make up one. In the spot for an email address you may put in someone@ladyjulia.net. This will allow the comment to pass on through for approval by me.
Hmm… what else?
I know, I’ll end with a little humor.

We know you love yoga—for your girlfriend. Her weekly practice makes her bendy in bed, more chill overall and therefore more sexy even when she’s lounging around. Well, we’ve got news for you. Yoga isn’t a ladies-only thing like going to the bathroom in packs or opening store credit cards only to get 5 percent off the purchase. In fact, taking one yoga class per week or doing a couple of pre-workout poses can increase endurance, build strength, prevent injuries, and may even stave off heart disease.
How? “Men often suffer from tightness particularly in the hips, hamstrings, and shoulders that can lead to injury or weakness,” says Baron Baptiste, creator of Baptiste Power Vinyasa Yoga and former assistant coach with the Philadelphia Eagles. “Over-training in any one sport can cause repetitive stress and other more serious injuries. Yoga is a full-body workout that creates both strength and flexibility. You need to have both. One without the other is a recipe for disaster.” Not sure where to start? Practice these 10 poses in this order, which Baptiste says benefit men because they stretch out guys’ tightest spots (like the shoulders, hips, and groin) and strengthen muscles that get no love during workouts (like the low back and knees).
Forward Fold
Stretches hamstrings, calves, and hips; strengthens legs and knees
Stand with feet hip-width apart, gently hinge forward at the hips and lower the torso toward the floor. Bend your knees generously to take any pressure out of the low back and hamstrings. Grasp opposite elbows with opposite hands. Breathe deeply and let gravity take the body toward the earth. Relax your head, neck, shoulders and torso. Slowly sway your torso or gently shake your head. Hold for one minute and roll back up to standing.
Why it’s good for you: This is a great move to use as part of a warm-up for any workout.
We often have a hard time knowing when we are holding excess tension in our head, neck and shoulders, and that buildup of tension can create headaches, insomnia, poor circulation and decreased lung capacity. If you practice slow, steady breathing along with this pose, it can lower your blood pressure over time.
Downward-Facing Dog
Stretches feet, shoulders, hamstrings, and calves; strengthens arms, legs, and core
Start on your hands and knees with your feet and knees hip-width apart. Position your hands about shoulder-width apart, and spread your fingers wide. Pressing firmly through your hands, lift your knees off the floor and straighten your legs. (If you have tight hamstrings, a gentle bend in the knees is fine). Walk your hands forward a few inches, and walk your feet back a few inches to lengthen the pose. Squeeze your thighs as you press them toward the back wall. Press your heels back and down toward the floor (though they might not reach the floor). Relax your head and neck and let your shoulder blades slide down your back toward your feet. Set your gaze between your feet. Suck your stomach in and engage your core muscles. Breathe deeply. Hold for three minutes, rest, and repeat one more time.
Why it’s good for you: We often experience back pain due to chronic tightness in the hamstrings and hips. It’s also common for us to have very tight shoulders. Down Dog releases those areas, while building upper body strength. If you can do only one pose a day, start with Downward Dog.
Chair
Stretches shoulders and chest; strengthens thighs, calves, spine, and ankles
Stand up tall with your big toes touching. Inhale and raise your arms straight up to the ceiling alongside your head and neck with palms facing each other. Drop your shoulders down your back as you lengthen up through the neck. As you exhale, bend your knees, sit down and back as if you were sitting in a chair (like doing a squat with your feet together). Do not let your knees extend past your toes. With each inhale lengthen the spine. With each exhale sit a little deeper in the chair. Eventually your thighs will be parallel to the floor. Drop your tailbone down toward the floor to take any stress out of your lower back. Keep your core muscles engaged and keep your knees and thighs pressed tightly together. Hold for 30 seconds.
I benefit by having the washing done sometimes. Sometimes he makes dinner. He rubs my feet when I want and massages my shoulders when I’m tired.
It is a pity you didn’t ask about the drawbacks because there are several.
You also didn’t ask all the things I have to do now that he no longer feels he should do because they are my responsibility because I’m now the one in control. I don’t want to rain on your parade because it sounds like you were lucky and had a very nice life but I do not think this life is very great. It sounds like you are having a difficult time and I’m sorry to read that. A femdom (female led relationship) is definitely not for everyone, nor is it as simple as some men think - especially for those women who are not naturally dominant.
I thought Free Thinking Writer left a very interesting response: Barbara, I’ll suggest something. Just because you are the ultimate authority in the household doesn’t absolve him of his share of decision making responsibilities. If there are things he’s not doing, tell him to suck it up and handle it. Some men think being in a wife led or a Femdom relationship means they have no responsibility in the area of decision-making. All they have to do is whatever they are told.
For some couples, that’s true. Some women want to be in charge of everything with little or no input from their partner. That style of dominance is really not for me. When I’m the person in control, I see no reason why I cannot delegate certain things as his responsibility. If he has a degree in finance and my degree is in nursing, I’m probably going to put him in charge of keeping up with the finances. Why wouldn’t I listen to his advice if it’s his area of expertise? Or.. perhaps he doesn’t have any special training in finances, but he’s just better at it than I am. I’m not going to be the one to balance the checkbook or keep up with paying the bills. He is. If it’s time to decide if we can afford to buy a new car, I’m not making that decision alone. My goal would be for us to decide together. If we couldn’t agree, then we probably ouldn’t
buy the car until we could agree.
Many women (and men) won’t agree with that way of doing things, however it’s *my* way and to me, that’s what being in control is all about - doing it my way.
It’s the same with any aspect of the relationship. It’s not about *how* I
control, it’s that I *do* control.
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One thing you need to know before you get started is that you’re dealing with a very small segment of the populace. I don’t have any hard statistics on the subject, but I’m guessing that people who actually identify themselves as a member of the BDSM community are as low as 5 or 10 percent of the public. That means simply that as hard as it is to just find someone in general, it’s exceptionally hard to find a good match if you’re looking for a BDSM partner.
What you’re looking for within the BDSM community will make a big difference too. Men who are actively involved in BDSM far outweigh the number of women. That’s good news if you’re looking for a man, but if you’re looking for a woman, your search just got tougher. And if you’re a submissive man (tons of those) looking for a dominant woman (very very few of those), then you’ve really got a large mountain to climb. No matter what you’re looking for, the more you get out there, the better chance that you’ll find someone.
There are three decent ways to meet the partner of your dreams – BDSM Email Groups, BDSM Personals, and BDSM Organizations. The best method would be to utilize all of these avenues.
I’ll talk more about these in the next part of my article.

I guess I had forgotten what a pain in the ass it is to move. It’s easy to be comfortable where you are and just stay put, but once that decision is made to move and the wheels are in motion, the journey begins. Although things went smoothly with moving, I can’t say it was an easy move or decision to make. When I got here there was a lot to be done, and mostly it is pretty well done with just a few odds and ends to take care of.
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